01-25-2009 06:00 PM
Are the "pending problems" resolved ?
03-15-2009 11:23 AM
Hi. I seem to have a simlar problem to several others. I have a BB Pearl 8110.
I want to use BB Messenger to msg with my Blackberry owning contacts. I can add a contact in BB Messenger from my Address Book. The contact is shown as "Pending". The contact receives the request. They accept. I get an email back which is kinda gobbledegook (presumably a character string the phone should recognise), but the contact doesn't get added to my list of BB Messsenger contacts and I can't msg them. A similar thing happens if they invite me. I get an email - gobbledegook again - but no BB Messenger request for me to add them.
07-20-2009 01:54 PM
I have the same problem. I am trying to add a contact in messenger, but we both get emails which say:
XXX would like to add you to his or her BlackBerry Messenger Contact List.
If you don't currently have the required application on your device, please visit www.BlackBerry.com/messenger to learn more about this service.
Once you've installed BlackBerry Messenger, return to this message to accept this request.
This message was sent from my Blackberry.
We have each other as pending contacts and have no idea how to fix.
My blackberry is new and does have Blackberry Messenger 4.5.0.
Has anyone answered your question?
07-20-2009 03:20 PM
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Do you both have the BlackBerry data service? Try adding by pin number.
09-20-2009 04:09 PM
I am having a similar problem as the others. My mother sent me an invitation and I accepted. We were able to start conversations immediately. But since then, I have tried to add several friends who are on the same service provider. They all ended up in the pending list, even after they have accepted my invitation. We are able to text message each other and receivef emails from each other.
We are just at a lost as to how to fix this problem. HELP!!!!!