Porcha, BlackBerry Desktop Software and BlackBerry Desktop Manager are the very same thing, just that with v6, RIM renamed it from Manager to Software.
Please be.polite. We're users just like you, and I'm sure you're not mad at us. Frustrated, I understand.
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