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New Contributor
Posts: 2
Registered: ‎10-16-2008
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blackberry messenger - problem with contacts accepting but still pending



I used to be able to converse with two contacts in particular. all of a sudden they became unreachable.


we deleted each other as contacts and tried to re-add but after confirming we are still sitting at "pending" status in our contact lists.


Could anyone please advise as to what I can do?


I've already reinstalled the os with version 4.5 and i still have this problem. what is more weird is that i can use BBM with someone else on my contact list without any problem at all!



does this email mean anything to anyone? I think it has something to do with either accepting/deleting me as a contact?



Subject: <$RemoveOnDelivery,SuppressSaveInSentItems>











Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device


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New Contributor
Posts: 2
Registered: ‎10-25-2008
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Re: blackberry messenger - problem with contacts accepting but still pending

Hello. I have exactly the same problem.All of a sudden I was not able to talk to a few of my contacts. I could send them messages and they would receive them but when they sent me a message back I was not able to receive it. So deleted them and tried to add them again and ever since they have been pending. I tried adding them on someone elses handset and it worked just fine, and i was able to have a conversation but my handset still does not work.

Have you had any solutions to this problem?

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