I am having a similar problem with my Lexus LS460. I have had my tour for a month or so, and just this past week it has started acting up where it appears to make a call as soon as I start my car. Basically, when I get in my car and start the vehicle, the nav console indicates that the phone is paired up, then the car's nav screen shows "connect", like a call is in progress, and the car's radio is off. When I end the call either through the car's disconnect button or the phone's, the car radio comes back on. I have seen many reports of this same problem on the Lexus forums, and this is the first indication that I have seen from another car manufacturer. The fact that someone had a similar connect problem on their Land Rover tells me it is not the car, it is the phone.
I have also heard complaints when talking on the phone through my car's bluetooth that my voice is muffled, and have to literally yell when using it in the car. The RIM people obviously in discuise on this forum say to contact the carrier. I went to VZW today, and they claimed that they did not know about the problem. They offered to replace the phone in the next 2 days (before my 30 days expire since I bought it), but don't have the knowledge or capability to FIX the problem. They can't, because they didn't design/build the phone. If I replace the phone with another Tour, I am afraid I am going to have the same problem all over again.
