Three methods? And what I would like to know is whilst both you and your contact have BBM 7 and are both currently connected to WiFi what makes them unavailable? I've been in a chat with a friend, we both have BBM 7, we're both connected to WiFi. I can receive bbms off her yet she's unavailble for Voice Chat
when she is in a chat with you, the green icon means your device is ready to receive and send BBm Voice.
On the other hand, the grey icon on your phone means that her phone is not ready to receive or initiate BBm Voice. So there is something on her side that is not properly configured. What is her status in BBm ? Is she using her home WiFi or a public HotSpot ?
Hope this helps.
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