I updated my installation instructions how to start developing for BlackBerry Java:
http://ekkescorner.wordpress.com/blog-series/blackberrydev/
perhaps it will be of some help for you
the HowTo covers:
* install EclipsePlugIn on OSX (BETA)
* install Eclipse PlugIn in Windows 7-64
* install Eclipse PlugIn in Windows 7-64 on top of OSX using Parallels VM
because at the moment 1.3 only provides the Full Installer, I'll add the descriptions to install Eclipse and then BB from Update Site later if this is available
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ekke (independent software architect, rosenheim, germany)
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