From what you describe, you likely have an issue with how your email is configured to your iPad (e.g., not configured to delete from the iPad when an item is deleted from the server). But you do not have a BlackBerry problem. So your inquiry would be best directed to forums/sites that specialize in iPad issues, not BlackBerry issues.
Occam's Razor nearly always applies when troubleshooting technology issues!
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