I just had to have my blackberry completely erased. When setting up my blackberry messenger I invited all of my old contacts and everyone accepted except for one. However, she said she did accept. Then she sent me an invitation from her blackberry messenger and I never received it, it went into the pending box then disappeared. I am listed on her contact list but she is not on mine. She sent to me a messenger text and we have an open coversation that I can respond to, but she is still not listed in my contacts. when I click on her name and go to contact info it says "unauthorized" and all my other contacts say active. We both tried deleting and adding again and we can't figure it out, has this ever happened to anyone before, any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!