Every time I send an email from my account, either from my BB or from my email service, it saves a copy of that email to my BB. I have upgraded to 4.5 and am following the directions to disable this function. I am going to the message list-options-email settings, but I dont have the "send email to handheld" there for me to change to "no". I cant figure out what else to do and it is very annoying to get a copy of your message alerting you every time you send one. Can someone please help?