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I just upgraded BBM and it shows installed so won't re-load and yet icon is gone. Also did reset, nothing, not hidden, so Anyone??
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Have a look at the following article which should help you out with your issue.
BlackBerry Messenger icon disappears from the Home screen of the BlackBerry smartphone
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