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New Member
Posts: 1
Registered: ‎01-31-2013
My Device: Curve 8520
My Carrier: Vodafone

Unable to accept request on BBM

Hi, I have tried to invite my husband and visa versa on BBM and it remains on pending. At one stage we were connected without a problem, then we eventually reconnected and he could send me messages but I could not send to him. What is going on? The only reason I bought him the Blackberry is because of the BBM, and now we cannot even communicate with each other?
Elite II
Posts: 7,974
Registered: ‎06-01-2012
My Device: Curve
My Carrier: BSNL

Re: Unable to accept request on BBM

Hi Cherylc


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Is this happening with only one contact or with everyone .I assume you have an active BlackBerry Data Plan / BIS on your account , please try those steps in a sequence :


1- Register your Handheld .

  • KB00510 How to register a BlackBerry smartphone with the wireless network
  • Wait till a Registration messages comes in your message box.

2- Resend your Service Book

  • KB02830 Send the service books for the BlackBerry Internet Service
  • ( Wait till a Registration message comes on your message box for each email you have configured on your device )

3-  Then perform a battery pull restart like this while the device is powered On remove your battery wait for a min. Then reinsert it back 


If still unable to send or receive invitation then the problem might be on your account or other end , and you can contact your respective carriers to know about the issue.


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